Your friend is yourself

Have you ever heard this proverb?

“Tell me who your friend is, I’ll tell you who you are”

May be some of you will think that it’s a very common proverb. But I’d like to digging it deeper, cause there is a big meaning behind this proverb. Sometimes people talk about their friends kindness, goodness even weakness. I’m also sometimes (It’s unavoidably, but really I'm trying to decrease it). And don’t you know that actually what people saying about their friends, actually they tell us about their self. It makes sense, cause friendship isn’t kind of close relationship. We share many things with our friends, we shared story, happiness, sadness, and even feelings. By the time when a friendship is getting closer, unconsciously each friends will imitate each other, the way they talk, the way they see, the way they think, and even the way they laugh will be similar.

You may don’t believe it, but think it deeper. Look at your self, you can’t doubt it, that your characters and your habits is formed by your environment. Especially your friends, one of the most person who you shared time with.

So, be careful when you make  friends, you have to be selective. If you make a friends with a freeman, in spite of people will say you’re a freeman, you may turn become a freeman. If your friend is a kind hearted, people will think that you’re kind hearted even you’re not kind hearted at all. Cause by the time your friend will influence you. But it doesn’t mean that bad people can’t make a friend with good people, everybody can make friends with anybody. But we have to be careful and selective when we make a best friend or close friend. Cause the probability of being influenced by close friend is higher than the common friend.